Plot twist: You put your love on top.
Ven pa’ca, baddie. Sit down.
Stay for a while. Tómate un cafecito.
I see what you’ve been up to. You’re doing it all. You. are. workin’—OK!
You are putting on for yourself, your family, your friends, your loved ones…
Pero oye, hold up, just sit for a second. Let’s talk.
Are you lovin’ on you? like, for real? no, like… deadass.
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Baddie, here’s the thing. Lovin’ on you isn’t just about the candles and face masks and affirmations and treating yourself and ah ah ah.
It’s about assuming yourself sacred and honoring it as Truth—every day.
I can admit it, beloved. I’m working on it too. The everydayness of it, especially. So, let’s do this—together. Let us figure out what it looks like to honor Self.
Everything changes when you remember who the fuck you are.
No, like… deadass.
I’m a baddie with my baddie friends.
Pull up on me. Let’s get into this journey of self-worthiness. I want to be your friend as we dive into it—and through it. Some weeks, I’ll hold your hand; others, I’ll snatch your baby hairs, but in the end, it’s all love from me to you—you to me.
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I’m not one to put my authentic, raw self out on Beyoncé’s internet, but the way I see it: if sharing the pieces of myself I’m still mending together helps heal us, then it’s all well worth it—and so are you.
I want you here. Showing up for yourself.
Another plot twist, friend: You have to want it too.
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